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Ways that parents can help and support their kids in a divorce

On Behalf of | Nov 15, 2023 | Divorce

Divorce is a challenging process for families, and children often feel the impact deeply. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention reported the number of divorces in the country in 2021 was 689,308.

As parents navigate this difficult terrain, providing support for their kids before, during and after is important for their emotional well-being.

Before the divorce

Before the divorce, open and honest communication is paramount. Parents should have age-appropriate conversations with their children about the impending changes. Reassuring them that the divorce is not their fault can help alleviate anxieties. Creating a sense of stability through consistent routines and emphasizing that both parents’ continued involvement in their lives can offer a sense of security.

During the divorce

Maintaining a united front when it comes to co-parenting helps during the process. Minimizing conflicts in front of the children and refraining from involving them in adult issues can shield them from unnecessary stress. Parents should prioritize their children’s emotional needs and be receptive to their feelings. Encouraging open communication and addressing any questions or concerns can foster a supportive environment.

After the divorce

After the divorce, parents must be active in their kids’ lives. Planning when they will be with each parent and doing things together ensures the children maintain relationships with both parents. It is also important for parents to talk regularly about the kids. Working together in a friendly way helps kids feel secure. Keeping things steady and predictable helps kids get used to the new family situation.

Giving emotional support is really important after a divorce. Encouraging kids to talk about how they feel and saying it is okay to feel that way helps them deal with all the changes. Making a safe space for them to share their thoughts makes the bond between parent and child stronger. If kids need extra help dealing with their feelings, getting them counseling or joining support groups can be a good idea.

In this time of uncertainty, children really need security and stability. This helps make things easier as they adjust to the changes in their family.